at the onset let me put it very straight..
i have this opinion..
"There is only so much you can do for people, beyond that its thank you".
now i pretty much live by that, except for the extraordinary..(rare cases to say the least)... just that it has been brought to my notice these last few days that i come across as a pretty arrogant person.. and maybe not liked too much..
on the brighter side.. i dont have to mix around with a 100 ppl now..
but still.. i was contemplating last night.. do i need to change.. i mean ppl dont like calling a spade a spade// if u say things in black and white u r not a very good person.. be diplomatic and all..
well i have anyways reduced my response to ppl a lot over the last 6 months or so.. and am trying to reduce it further..
y am i doing this.. is probably because ppl are not worth it and not so much that i change my image..
but seriously IS IT WORTH KEEPING EVERYONE HAPPY?? i mean who dont even mean anything to u..
i am not saying go and take their case or something.. but just indifferent.. live and let live.. dont ppl get this simple funda..
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if by making everyone happy you mean doing what they want you to do and behaving how they want you to behave then i think there is only one reply....ask them to stick it....but if by happy we mean not offending them or being blatantly rude (even if they are dead wrong) i think basic garden variety consideration never did anyone any harm....it might be a bit hypocritical...but then all "everyone"s are not important and dont matter...and also all of us are vain and would not like to be in "eveyone"'s shoes, being ignored and all....so a bit of humouring somebody will only keep trivial things from mounting and you'l do yourself a favour by saving your brain energy!!
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